new here. is DB even worth it?

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To add to the great advice above by 25, I will share a thought my IC shared with me... It helps put a positive spin on things for me when I feel like H is putting effort in to EVERYTHING else but our M:

Men are very single-minded. They truly work best when focused on one thing. Women are multi-taskers, and can devote our attention to multiple areas. This is especially true when emotions are involved.

Maybe... Just MAYBE he is focused in being the best dad he can be right now. That may mean he can't give you focus. Honestly, though, if that is the case, your D needs him more than you do. Give him some time to work on that R. Even if you don't stay M, she needs her dad.

This stuff is so hard! Hang in there!