Yes that's my concern. I keep hearing go dark. Which I did when she did not live here. She would text me call me anything to check up on me. But now she is home. She claims it was. To protect me and prove to people that I was not the dangerous lunatic SHE. And OM made me to be.
How do I disengage in the same house.
She follows me around. She comes in my room and asks for a back massage ( clothes on by the way) she tries to hold my hand.
She even talks about dinner on our anniversary after she comes back from seeing her OM IN another country,
SO IS my approach best to be the best man and just ignore the affair. Mor do I avoid her.
I have started to GAL, I just don't know what I should be doing at this point in time...besides all the other stuff about listening not arguing...
That is the main crux of my confusion. The MA. Board says face it I am done, ignore her my divorce her,etc...
How do I get her to stop talking about OM. I try and try and try.
W 53 H 51, S 16, S 21 33 years M 28 DD 3 Feb 11, 2014 S21 and His Fiancée move in with us 8/14 http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...965#Post2477965
