Thanks everyone. It is so hard BC I know he is detached. How foes it work if we both are detaching? So far the kids don't know. I am glad our work schedules are different. I dread days off that are the same.

I just don't know how to put the smile on and talk to him. I just come across pissed. I am nit interested in his lies. I feel like when we are gone in mornings he is with ow shopping and screwing her in our house...ugh. So hard to ignore his nonsense and gal. Now he accuses me of an affair..ugh