Praying - Life will teach your H very quickly all the lessons you want to tell him.

I would just sign the papers and move on, the best you can.

When these MLC feel like they are being held back or tied to us in any way they act more irrational.

If you set them free that is the only way to get them back.

I still have hope for your marriage.

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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13