Wow Sandi...I was posting the question and you were posting the answer at the same time. Thank you for the 2x4....I needed it. I have not detached. I never have. I have tried. I have dated no less than 5-6 people (I don't talk about it here much) and still have kept her in my heart.
Thank you for the kick in the butt. I don't think you could possibly understand how much your advice has helped me. I am sorry if I have not been the best "student". I am often slow and in my own way.