that makes a lot of sense to me. I do sometimes try to read into what she does in some vague hope that she is changing her mind about things but I know thats futile now and only serves to stop my progress in detaching. Its just weird that we can't communicate anymore, we were such a close couple able to talk about anything and now the slightest issue becomes impossible. I really have to stand firm on the distance now as I know it is better for me.