It almost feels like this whole [censored] show over the past year has taken on a life of its own and we've forgotten what our real issues were. Presumably because in her mind, its just easier to not look at them and run off with the OM
In her mind, that may be closer to how she thinks than you know. To me, it makes more sense to see a WAW in a M of many years which has so many problems that choosing a new life with OM is easier for her than fixing the old one. But you two have not been M very long!
However, she may be the type who had rather handle most problems in her life by deleting what she sees as not working and just get a new one. It seems we live in not only an instant gratification society, but a throw-away, as well.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
