>>>>>>>>>>> snide remark: "I stated that I was reading it because knowing that I own a car, does not make me a mechanic."
MM, you ask us why others have gotten different advice from you, or why they've gotten the results you havent.
and your lengthy response above is the reason.
you ask for help and then nit-pick over our comments to prove we're wrong or we dont understand, etc.
the problem is, we get it. we see it clearly.
instead of soul-searching and working on yourself, you choose to respond that we're wrong, and then spend your day obsessing about him and what he's doing and if he's irritable. you have proven time and time again you have no existance outside of him, you cannot post 2 comments in a row that isnt all about him.
i guarantee you that you will make no real progress until you finally grasp that none of this has anything to do with him.
the problem with your relationship is you.
"In a ham and eggs breakfast, the hen is involved, but the pig is committed".
