I am still grounded in reality, GM. I know my circumstances and I know I have to move on whether I like it or not. Facts kind of trump hope most days. Though I do see 25's point I am still anchored in "now".

So you will love this......email from her this morning.

"I'm looking to book summer trip to Iowa. Are you open to compromising and giving us some extra days to travel?".

Honestly, what is the compromise?? I am not asking her for anything nor does she have anything I want. How does she view this as a compromise? She uses that language ALL THE TIME. I have not responded yet. But seriously? How does she see this as a compromise to be made? ALWAYS looking for extra days from me for her trips to Iowa. Does she think this is a good time to ask? Given all that has come up?