oh dear... I am answering because I am online for the next little bit.
I think there is some sort of miscommunication. Bond, I was crediting you for the word "bait". How I used it was my own fault. Not anyone elses.... I give you credit, because I like how it resonates for me. I am not associating my "wrongness of meaning" to you. Sorry, if it implies that.
Im not sure what you are speaking of...I have not said anyone was wrong (or at least I hope they dont feel that way)...I am not asking anyone any questions. I finally know MY OWN ANSWER ... to act on how I AM FEELING... to CARE about MY feeling here.... not to focus on how it makes him feel. I "see/feel/know" how "coffee time" makes ME feel. And, I should pay attention to that! I feel that I layed it all on line the other day & it wasn't taken seriously or appreciated. <<< This is a turn off. I want to be wtih someone who appreciates the hard efforts and the forecasted attempt to make it work.... since, he doesn't. Its his loss. (without attitude). I feel sorry that he cannot SEE what he has right infront of him. If he is prepared to really lose that for good...its HIS LOSS. I deserve better.
I will digest as you recommend...good idea.
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
