Well we agreed that contact going forward would only be ref the boys so I thought it was clear. She was so nice on the phone which is strange considering how we left things on Monday. I will have to be on my guard as she really seems to be cake eating and up to now I have been letting her off with it. I am feeling much stronger today but things like that make me wonder whats going on. I mean she was adamant also that space was needed and yet she rings me already. The voicemail thing seems like a good idead.