I am sorry you feel that I am trying to debate..... I feel the opposite. I actually am trying to understand and I don't understand where you feel there is a debate.....especially after my last long message. I know that before I was guilty of debating. I debate by nature (out of curiosity, not to disagree or to challenge, but to further understand).
As for the hook/bait comments. His words are "I keep trying to have coffee/beer/dinner, etc to keep connected, and possibly for reconciliation" and "I realize I might be trying to cake eat".
Yes, more than one person has told me... but, there also comes a time when the light switches on... you can believe its finally time! Watch my actions (however, I may slip...that doesn't mean I haven't listened or might "debate" again)... I will remain a work in progress.
I didn't use the word "bait" in wrong context. I used to think it was something else. I fully know how to use it now. I like the word because It resonates with me... I will continue to use it.... I am not in the same place. I am not sure what you are referring to here. I am not applying any of the same rules and not sure how that relates to the term "bait"?
I sure hope you don't feel that I am debating, just because I ask the question for further clarity. Clarification purposes ONLY.
Tx, MM
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
