Day one of my new resolve and she's broken the rule already. She texted me asking if she could call and see the boys. I said they were out but that she could if she wanted. She then said she would just call my son on his mobile. Then she calls me??? Why I have no idea, small talk and asking me if I wanted her to swap this weekend( my weekend with boys) and she would have them as she has no plans. Hardly essential for her to call. I should have just ignored it....