For me and my situation it is less about fear and more related to the self-worth point (I think).
Anything in particular that you did to regain your confidence and sense of self-worth? As hard as it was for H to be gone, do you think his leaving helped in some ways in regaining your mojo?
Thanks for any insights. Stay Strong!
Me-48,W-51 M-22,T-24 S- 18,16,9 Feb-Jul '11 Away from Home, after initial B date Aug-Dec '11 Back at Home on couch Dec '11-now Same bedroom, room mates only Dec '14 W files initial D paperwork