Thanks guys I was just reading old threads - sometimes I wish there was an "update" button to see what happened to a lot of posters who just stop posting with no real closure. Just the curious reader in me. Tonight is divorce rebuilding group, looking forward to that. I will most likely see exH Sunday when he brings me the dissolution papers and final check for his portion of the health insurance, he managed to forget them 2 weeks ago and only brought the d papers. It's all final but I need the copies for my files and to refi the house. I think this is the last time i'll have to contact him for anything. His birthday is tomorrow. I've been down for about a week, I think it had to do with Easter, his birthday this week and our anniversary is in less than a month. Just a lot of firsts without him. It was 2 months yesterday that he moved out. Feels like so much longer. I need to focus on myself more and not finding myself wondering about our sitch so much. In reality, after Sunday there is no sitch. We're divorced. it's done. I will let him make the next contact and see what happens. I like what you said GB - good stuff is coming.
Me - 42 exH - 56 Married 10.5 years Together 17 bomb dropped 1/6/14 signed papers 2/4/14 H moved out 2/22/14 D final 4/4/14 Dropped the rope 5/17/14 2 cats, 2 dogs
