IF you are standing (and I assume you are since you are posting here), then it is your MLC too. Only difference is, that you get to do the same as she does, without all of the confusion, and internal conflict that she has to deal with.
You get to do this with a clear head, and without destroying everything in your life to get there.
I have always said that there are two sides to every person. Their personality, and their character. The personality is what they show to the world, and their character is who they are when the room is dark, and there is nobody watching them.
MLC is a full frontal attack on a person' character, and it attacks every facet of their moral code, social code, integrity, honor,etc...
Yea, she seems pretty script with a lot of her actions.
What is it that YOU want right now ??
Nothing about her either...
This is about you, your hopes, your dreams, your thoughts ????
You say that you have given up GAL.....
Why ???
And not some cheesy version of why, the real truth of why, and how that affects YOU in the long run... ????
Your goal right now, is to outlast her MLC. You have to be stronger than anything that she can throw at you.
And the suktastic part of that, is that there are absolutely ZERO guarantees that things will work out in the end.
Do you have it in you, to outlast her ?
Most guys don't make it that long, they come here, and profess that they can stand forever for their spouse, blah, blah, blah...
And they last a few months.....
Can you last ????
How much of " Why do I love her ?" comes from your guilt ? and your past actions ???
Yes, you did not CAUSE this, although you did contribute to it. Everything in her life until this point has been a contribution to it....
Her MLC is just that....HERS....
Leave it the F alone, and don't get it out and play with it, just to see if it is still there...
Focus on you, the kids, and WHEN this turns around for her ???
