The we is when they went away for the holidays and what she meant was him , his friends and herself...
His friends completely support the affair. One of them called me once and told me that I was a looser for trying to save my marriage and that doesn't their friend the OM deserve happiness!
I later found out that one of these friends has been married three times in fourteen years!
If any of my friends knew I was having an affair with a married woman they would never ever talk to me again. Especially the woman I know from work, oh and my family would disown me!
The other issue is during the argument I mentioned how I sometimes would tape a note to the inside garage door attacking her and that I found out from my mom that my father used to do that. My wife cried about that and said , you learned from your father.
MEANWHILE THE FIRST THING she said to me this morning was, I forgot about the notes thanks for reminding me, that's one more problem we had!
Ugh
W 53 H 51, S 16, S 21 33 years M 28 DD 3 Feb 11, 2014 S21 and His Fiancée move in with us 8/14 http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...965#Post2477965
