I really can't figure out what you are trying to say in your last post. What is your point? A lot of times you just give us a "play by play" of events that occur between you and your wife. Figure out what you are looking for from this site and then make posts that help us help you.
Also, PLEASE do a thorough job of spell checking and reviewing your posts so you are conveying exactly what you are wanting to say. You seem like you're in such a hurry to post that many of your writings don't make much sense at all. It causes you to come across as very scattered and incoherent.
Sorry. Sometimes I am typing on my iPad and the words get misspelled. I don't notice it right away...
I actually lost my train of thought while typing that last post and accidentally submitted instead of preview.
I was trying to ask, what is the best way to approach my situation. I know she is cake eating. The fight started originally because I was trying to detach a limitless more.
She wants me to do married couple activities with her , she tells me I am her best friend.
She wants to basically date me, but she's not willing to give up OM....yet.
Some of the things she said during phase two of the argument where almost a confession of the fact that we will never reconcile . The problem was that the temper tantrum she was throwing was drawing me in , not pushing me away.
So, am I spending to much time with her? Is this a healthy thing to do?
What is the best way to detach, while she's under the same roof, and wanting to spend all this time with me...we did agree to take away breaks even if just for a few hours.
My concern is S15, almost 16.
He saw us sitting in bed together though apart, no physical closeness. His exact words where " good-night" and " this is so weird" while pointing at the two of us in the bed.
I just don't know if I am screwing with his head as much as WAW is mine?
W 53 H 51, S 16, S 21 33 years M 28 DD 3 Feb 11, 2014 S21 and His Fiancée move in with us 8/14 http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...965#Post2477965
