"Ok, so,we had our first argument since she moved back in. It was kind of cathartic. I think it was a little fear because we are going to the lawyers tomorrow. It's to work with some financial planners and set up the final boundries."
I don't understand how the lawyers are supposed to set up boundaries. That is for YOU to set up.
"She keeps violating them but I am afraid I have been allowing it. for example we were hanging out In the master bedroom I the bed talking when the argument started."
I don't get it. What boundary was crossed? It sounds more like you're trying to punish her rather than actually setting up something that protects your assets.
Then she said I feel bad, maybe we should put up a divider so you can sleep here.
Ofcourse for some reason that led to another big argument..she was yeeeeeellllllling I was actually getting a little attached to her , it was a rush to see how strong she can be and how she will protect her beliefs."
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.