She may not want D, but she does want change. This comment sticks out so far: "She warned me we were passing ships"

How can you do your part to change that? What else was there that you can change to improve things besides being less of a homebird? Some of what you write has the feel of "it is just like it used to be". I'm guessing because you are taking some of the pressure off with what you are doing. But she wants changes.

me: 45 W:45
M 20 years
T 22 years
S14, S13, S11, D9
BD 2/28/14
D papers served 3/3/14
I moved out 3/15/14
MC start 4/2/14
I moved in 6/2/14
D suit withdrawn 6/30/14