I think you need to consider the difference between expectations and hopes. You can have any of one right now and you always need the other.
One leads to disappointment and one leads to happiness and joy.
I'll leave it to you to figure out which is which.
me: 45 W:45 M 20 years T 22 years S14, S13, S11, D9 BD 2/28/14 D papers served 3/3/14 I moved out 3/15/14 MC start 4/2/14 I moved in 6/2/14 D suit withdrawn 6/30/14