I'm about a month in since the bomb dropped, so not very long by DB standards. I've ben doing ok re: GAL... Working out regularly, in touch with old friends and doing stuff with them. 180's have beem even better. I'm really identifying my own flaws and going in the opposite direction.
Not only is W is definitely noticing, but I've also been getting alot of positive feedback from people more removed from the situation. It feels good to feel good... Still have some moments of quiet despair, but overall I'm doing pretty d@mn well.
I've only suffered one setback, the argument we had the other night, and I seem to have recovered from that about as well as could be expected...W apologized and we spent a pleasant next day together. Nothing to indicate she's changed her mind but she's definitely liking the me she's seeing so... Just going to keep it up. If it doesn't change my sitch it at least is making everything else about my life better.
H: 43 W: 37 M: 11 years T: 12 years S: 11 D: 8 ILYBINILWY, "I want to move out" and "I want a divorce": 3/23/14 MC started: 9/22/14 Affair and past infidelity discovered: 9/26/14 Piecing: 10/20/14
