He said he just has no desire to be intimate with me. He lost his love for me and his desire for me. I told him I feel like that has something to do with the having all of those new girls as school and he agreed it might. His world has been opened up and he doesn't see the need to stay in something he feels nothing for instead of going out to find something he can feel love and intimate desire for.
Praying -- My H said basically the same thing -- after his 'world opened up' too, last year (when he met OW in a college course). Only he keeps repeating 'My love has changed.' And keeps harping on how our relationship was never 'intimate' enough. For 20 years? Then why did he stay? What is it with the MLC'er being so incredibly hung up on intimacy? Can anyone shed some light on this? I've heard that word so many times in the past year it makes me ill.
I was devastated too, when he moved out. But it truly was the better thing for me, for my sanity...Hope you feel the same soon, Praying...
Me 53, XH 57 M 20 (+1.5) years, no kids BD June '13 H moved out July '13 Confirmed long-suspected PA Feb '14 H filed for D Nov. '14 D March '15
