First off, sorry that you find yourself on here. You won't find a better group of people to help you in your marriage.
Next, have you read DB or DR? You have to read those in order to understand the concepts presented here. That list of rules is actually in the book. Sandi is a poster who just retyped the whole thing.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
