It is amazing that your W thinks it's cool to talk about om with you. I mean, what....?
She's talking to you like she would one of her girlfriends? Crying and seeking comfort from the H she betrayed and is treating like a doormat?
I can't deal with much more of this. Tomorrow we meet with the collaborative divorce team to layout the financial plan
I feel like it may be time to divorce her.
She keeps saying she wants to stay for two years until S15 gets out of high school.
She also says she's not leaving the house, the mortgage is in both our names.
She tells me I am trying to control her by threatening to divorce her, after she has decided to go to Israel to see OM again..
The Collaborative divorce coach told us the OM is super 10x more controlling the. Any man he has ever dealt with..
The reason is when he asked what OM thought of her plans she said if he does not ask me I don't tell him..he does not ask because he does not want to know. The MC asked her what would happen if he found out, she said H&E would kill me, MC: those are string words, so she responded well he would yell at me or cry and I would tell him don't you act that way it's my life. MC responded she's controlling him , and he controls her by acting like a five year old every time he does not get his way.
Then he looked at me and said you can't compete with this foolishness you should just divorce her and walk away.
