new here. is DB even worth it?

[bashy]

Just read your 'quote' from what you think he is saying to you Claire. I'm in a sort of similar boat. I'm working on the 180 thing. Following Sandi2's 37 Rules. Me and WAW are getting along great when we do talk. But I get the feeling what she's saying to me is "Great. You now agree our marriage is over. Let's just get along as if we are great friends but nothing more".
It seems as if all the changes I'm trying - not contacting first unless with regards to daughter, keeping fit, going out more and when she asks am I going out I say yes, even though I might not be ie to appear more outgoing than before etc - but I feel it isn't working.
I feel like what I'm doing is counter productive. However, she was texting me from daughter's phone earlier pretending to be daughter to joke about something. Then when I rang her they were both laughing. I was too because it was funny. It was like the old days. But I know if I brought this up she's go into her shell and say I need to get over things ie we're over.
This is sooo tough.