Originally Posted By: JennD
Chin up, Upwards! Focus on the positive and feel the hard memories in smaller batches.

Thanks hun, i'm trying. I've not done any today because i'm already feeling a bit rubbish.

Originally Posted By: 3boyzmom
Sorry you are struggling Upwards. It really is easier to detach when they are being mean. Once you start to see bits and pieces of the old "H" it is hard to remain detached. You are strong. Keep taking it one day/hour/moment at a time. HUGS!!

Yes its hard, I really like the man he's becoming & I am beginning to see the man that I fell in love with many years ago again, he hasnt been that man for a long time (only glimpses) so its a difficult reminder that he's not by my side anymore.

On the other hand its nice that he's actually showing genuine remorse & concern, I suppose I need to focus on those positives.


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