If he recorded the conversation that would be great. Why? He can then present it in court and the judge will hear exactly what was said. Also, he may be slapped w/illegal recording of a hearing/meeting if he didn't advise all of the parties involved. Your h is just like my xh...stupid.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
