grrr... let me try again... because its not what I need him to do... but what I need for me. Period.

My boundary:

What I need from a LTR ~~~ I need someone who is prepared to work with me on problems and not run away. I need to KNOW that we are exclusive and committed to each other and our future. There must be a future. A forever future.

Basically, the relationship that I had before.. (with the new knowledge of relationship 101 and minus the attention of OW.

better?

M:46 H:49 T:20yrs
myD:22
H distant summer/12
H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12
BD: Dec 2/12
asked me begin to move end of Jan/13
moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff)
"agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)