Originally Posted By: gogofo
LA, are you saying distance myself because of the morning we spent together or because I was going to open communication a little more?
Originally Posted By: labug
By taking an action and expecting an outcome involving another person we're back to our old controlling selves, trying to manipulate an outcome.




I was referring to this, sorry that I wasn't clear.

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Well I just forced myself to not do something that I really wanted to; I did not invite my W to Easter dinner. I really wanted to, but I didn't.


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My reasoning being that she needs to miss me, amongst other things.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss