Can you please tell me what I am doing over and over and over again with Xbf? ..that needs to change?
No. Re-read your threads; you've been told over and over. I have neither the time nor the inclination to explain it to you for the umpteenth time, or to highlight the specific text, I"m sorry.
I will leave you with this hint, however: Men like (and respect in others) ACTION. WORDS make us crazy. Set a goal to cut out 90% of your words with him, and focus on your actions, and when all else fails . . . LEAVE. HIM. BE.
