So I'm supposed to live for myself now and remember when I didn't consider my wife's feelings in the past so I'm able to live independently while being thoughtful of others in the future?
Me: 31, W: 29 T: 4 M: 2 Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3) Separated, still living together: Nov 2013 Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014 W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014