new here. is DB even worth it?

[artsy]

^^^ right! Only 2 of my friends and my parents know. I have no idea who he's told, but that's on him.

And I did have to lay it on the line for each if them that I'm driving this car until the wheels fall off, so please don't bash him. (I honestly don't even talk about it any more- nothing to report! Lol!)

It was actually one of my friends who suggested I don't tell people. It will be hard for them to not want you to feel better ASAP, instead of working through things in time. If one of my friends came to me with the same sitch, I would tell her/him to cut their losses and move on (BEFORE all of this happened, that is )

And if your H is making decisions out of pride, he's gonna be miserable down the road. (Mine is doing the same thing).

Hang in there!