How should I engage her. I can not believe that I got into a 30 minute conversation of why her OM is a looser.
I really do love her and she is so vulnerable right now. She does not want to leave me, but she wants me to understand she feels she needs to go to Israel again in June...the thoughts of her hoping into bed with him after six weeks is tearing my heart out of my chest.
She says she needs to go one more time he wants to show her things. I asked her to tell me now if she really is going to marry him. I am not going to be plan b(that I did not say)
Mr. Bond, she tells me she still wants to do everything we have always done together, fishing, hunting , ( her OM does not know any of this, plus he thinks I am going to kill her can you imagine if he knew we were hunting?).
Should I do this stuff?
I respect you very much so I appreciate your feedback.
W 53 H 51, S 16, S 21 33 years M 28 DD 3 Feb 11, 2014 S21 and His Fiancée move in with us 8/14 http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...965#Post2477965