Believe none of what she says and half of what she does.
Have NO EXPECTATIONS.
Take care of yourself, breathe, eat, sleep, exercise.
You are on moderation right now on the forum. SO post in small frequent posts until you get off of it.
Your W is giving you a GIFT. THE GIFT OF TIME.
USE it wisely.
Knowledge is Power
Thanks Cadet! Yes I agree, I fortunately have time...and I'm working on this 24/7
I'm GAL with my hobbies and personal development (martial arts and may take up Salsa lessons )
Staying Detach is very tough right now, as she is responding positively to my changes. I'm not sure when its ok to get closer - I don't want to blow the progress because I reciprocated too soon!
Me: 43, W:42 M: 11 years T: 17 years Step S:22 Separated: 5/08/10 (came back 8 months later) Bomb Dropped: 04/12/14
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