Update 4/21.

Today my W commented she was 'proud I was working out' and she feels we didn't see each other much today(I was gone for 5 hours with work...hmmm

Also, she called to ask if we could watch the sunset together on the back deck.... which we NEVER do. The view is terrible because of trees. Now I think shes going crazy. (I was napping when she called so I never took her up on the offer. I'm trying to remain detached, but its getting tough!)

Is there a time when I should start working on the relationship? Start accepting her compliments and affection? Confused ....


Me: 43, W:42
M: 11 years
T: 17 years
Step S:22
Separated: 5/08/10 (came back 8 months later)
Bomb Dropped: 04/12/14

Doing a 180 and Sandi2's rules