It's one thing to act strong and confident; and yet another to act arrogant and treat your W like a sl*t like you just did. When she was breaking down, it was the perfect time for you to validate her feelings AND THEN lay down your boundaries.
You should have guided her and told her that she should go to an IC or some other counseling. The problem is that if you're treating her like that, if she goes back to you it will be based off of emotion which never works without some kind of guidance. o did tell her she needs therapy, she immediately puts it on me.. So what do you plan to do?
How much have you changed so that she would actually WANT to be with you? I haven't seen any change so far.
. This is my dilemma she said I have changed but then I did what I discuss above...
W 53 H 51, S 16, S 21 33 years M 28 DD 3 Feb 11, 2014 S21 and His Fiancée move in with us 8/14 http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...965#Post2477965
