I thought the exchange was ok. It was like a truth dart to someone who has been humiliating her h.
Tonight on my way home from a five hour drive I spoke to some close friends that have been helping me out. One is my cousin she's a few years younger the other a woman I used to work,with who knows my wife and is about six years older then us.
They have been helping me through my personal guilt etc..
Anyway, my cell rang it was my home number so I thought it was DS15. It Was my WS . She said she wanted to make sure I was safe etc.
When I got home she started with the tears this time I held her...and let her cry. Then DS15 after fake gagging went to bed.
She and I went to talk..I think she's scared because there is a divorce hearing on Wednesday with the coaches and attorneys.
She asked right out if I was filing and I said well the fact that you are,going to Israel,in five weeks leaves me no choice.
She chimed in , you see exactly that's what I told OM would happen. So I said, hey you laid out your sexual escapees to me with this guy, am I supposed to sit at home knowing my leagly matured wife is " greeting her man"
Boy the claws came out " I am not a cheater , don't you dare so I am a cheater, your an abuser"
This set me off no yelling no begging but i did rip her OM to threads verbally etc.. She insists I wring, he's not like that, yes he's had lots of wine but know of them are like me.....all fog speak.
I am kicking myself because just this morning she said I have changed, I have not been circle talking or going off on her... And I came pretty close to what she calls circle talk.
I have to stop the OM and relationship talk ....
W 53 H 51, S 16, S 21 33 years M 28 DD 3 Feb 11, 2014 S21 and His Fiancée move in with us 8/14 http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...965#Post2477965
