Oh, just a quick add on. My ex and I and former in laws on both sides do get together after graduations, concerts and what not. The focus is the kids.
In my case none of the kids like her. They have never asked her to one of their events. We have a weird situation I guess. Maybe it is because they both cheated on their families and she isn't ver close to my former in laws. Beats me.
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory