No, you aren't in the wrong forum. I am only commenting on what you have said.
My ex married his affair partner. I have never met her and have no desire to. I get along with my ex for the sake of my kids and my own well being. Hate is a cancer in itself. I don't need to drag it around.
If in your case the OW is his affair partner, I would have a hard time going to the after graduation picnic. Perhaps I would go for a short time for my son but I wouldn't stay a long time. If she is the person he started dating after he left, I would have an easier time since adultery was involved. I thought you were doing two seperate activities though. So you get to split the time with your son. Be happy for him and no guilt trips for his time spent with his dad.
Hope that helps. kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
