"The advice given to Pearlharbr is very different than Bond...its strict... hardly any waffling. Toss him to the curb effect. Treat him like I am the WAS, use those tactics. ALL Strategy. Step by step strategy... and it worked."
You're NOT getting it! When I mentioned that stuff about touch, etc. with your XBF, it was to start some kind of positive interaction with him. This was at a time when there was none. Now that there is, you have to change the way you interact with him. That shows how little you've grown. You're still seeing things like a ploy or strategy. You have to learn how to adapt on your own based on what's going on. None of the advice you get on here is absolute.
With pearlharbor, her BF wasn't showing her any consistent positive interaction, so she moved on. PLUS she didnt' work with her BF like you do.
I really don't like it when I'm misquoted or misunderstood that way. I'm telling you that you are still misunderstanding what everyone is telling you but you keep arguing.
The point is that pearl did it right.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
