Bond... I haven't missed it..... I see the growth...

in listening to her tho...initially she was lost & without any direction. I have not missed anything... Im still at the beginning of her story.

Her words :

"I admit that I do want him to realize the error of his ways. But it's not a pure motive, it's more a desire for vindication at this point."

I too am here (see below):

She did what worked and then when she started to grow, she started to outgrow her BF and then told him she didn't need him any more.

I am wanting to do what works, and along the way grow more. Accept who I am... And be respected..... if that drives me to a place where I am strong and confident without him... so be it.

Like I said... Im still reading & not even half way yet.....

M:46 H:49 T:20yrs
myD:22
H distant summer/12
H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12
BD: Dec 2/12
asked me begin to move end of Jan/13
moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff)
"agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)