"Gabby... no... the whole pearlharbr story is strategy. Its very interesting. But very strategic and manipulating."
OMG you totally missed the point of her thread. She did what worked and then when she started to grow, she started to outgrow her BF and then told him she didn't need him any more. It wasn't a ploy or a strategy, she was done. She got her self respect back and didnt' keep seeing everything her BF did.
Starsky, myself and others were the ones who helped her so I should know what I'm talking about. You've got it wrong. Plus you probably didn't read all of the things she posted on other people's threads that detailed her growth as well.
You're just reading the words without understanding what was really going on. Without really trying to understand.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.