Gabby... no... the whole pearlharbr story is strategy. Its very interesting. But very strategic and manipulating.
I never had a strategy before. The diff between pearl and myself is she had intentions to play him, to see him sweat. And the supporter even suggested she read a thread of a woman who pretended to have an imaginary boyfriend. My intention is to save me and my self worth... not accepting the crumbs anymore. Period. She overcame the part of it being a strategy and grew to want more for herself... this is where I jump in. <<<< this is where I am at!
Her words "right now I am only doing it for me and to make him realize what he threw away." .... I can totally relate & can't help but want my xbf to realize too. But...thats not my sole purpose...or even the main purpose. My sanity is!
This is 'day one' of me saying NO TX for coffee, no more crumbs,
I am on this site for the support and hand holding that it offers.... like many people on here. I have seen many on here for years and years, I'm still a newbie in comparison.
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
