Since I started doing this, the following has been happening:

- She communicates more about random stuff, her day, etc... as she gets home from work.
- She is friendlier around me.

Arent we supposed to do more of what works? I see this seems to work to open her up and make her feel I am not a threat (as I don't ask for anything in return).

Me: 37, WAW 33, M 13 years
Kids: Boy: 4, Girl: 8
Separated: 10/24/13
DB since: 12/14/13
Big D talk started: 1/1/14 (Not served yet)
Still living together/Separate rooms