I think I wanted to believe there was not OP, that he was being honest about that at least. If it is true, I am more upset about the lying (I think).
A 180 for me is that before BD, I would have been on the phone confronting him about what I found. But I have tried to really think about what this means to me, slowing down and working through my feelings. I'm sad because my H can be such a romantic, I have not be on the recieving end of that for so long now, but I remember how much thought he can put into wooing someone. I'm trying feel these things and let them pass through me.
I hope my H owns up to it one day, if true.
M45 H46 M16 yrs D17, D10, D7 DB 1-23-2014 H filed D 2-14-2014
