"Saying I want a reconciliation, but if he is not willing to put both feet in, commit & be exclusive....then I'm out."
Um this is an ultimatum.
"Which surprised me & she even got support knowing her position. She was given step by step details on what to do. Very surprised."
She got guidance same way as you did, but she actually grew. As being one of those who helped along with others, we could actually see her learning. You're not in the same league as her right now. She learned eventually to really concentrate on herself and not manipulate her BF who is now her H.
For some reason you can't see things the way we do.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
