Thanks. I have been struggling on what to do. He us so into ow ( he claims they are only friends...not). He spends like 16 hours a day four days a week with her and the other days about four. The lies are about 90% now, and they are about even dumb things. He has changed so much in six months. The affair is ea and pa. Somedays the only thing that keeps me here is the kids. The only commandment left for him to break is murder...ugh.
Now he is getting mad because he thinks I am texting all the time. I am blogging though...LOL. I am now being accused of an affair. Joy!! I did not realize how controlling he is until now