I will give you a great measure for your progress. I got on Gineen for this for quite some time so don't feel alone. When you stop making your posts about him you will be on your way. That is not to say a once and a while comment but take a look at your posts.

So much is still about him. How you felt about or because of him and OW. Spending way too much time on the wrong people. It has been three years, that has been long enough.

kat

Me-53(and learning!)
S24, S21, D18, D17
Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory