" Pearlharbr actually did it ALL....for the reaction. "
Wow are you totally wrong. That just shows how little you understand. Listen to starsky.
"said "no thx" in text to my coffee offer today. Said that I was busy with a client... didn't want to make him feel bad. He arrived at work with coffee for himself and a fresh pack of cookies. I was reading, when he arrived...then intermittently worked on our vehicles, then back to reading...I didn't even sit with him
...its a start."
You're still trying out tactics on him. If you weren't you wouldn't still be analyzing EVERY little thing he does. I mean you're the only person who details every movement and things that their spouse actually brings. "FRESH" cookies?
"I really see that I need to have boundaries... a minimum as to what I require. My bottom line is ... an exclusive, committed relationship where we address our issues."
That's not a boundary. That's an ultimatum on your part. You pretty much gave him an ultimatum.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
